One thing that I have learned is that the basic impetus of
human behavior is “acceptance”. We all as conscious beings, thrive for gaining
the acceptance of others. In a sense we all live in the consciousness of
others, with all our idiosyncrasies, we give ourselves to others for judgment,
for their approval and acceptance. This acceptance makes us complete, and fail
to gain one, makes us sullen. The emptiness prevails in the failure of gaining
other’s acceptance. For this we guise in sweetness, or wear the cloak which
suites others. And this morbid fascination grows, molding our behaviors and
personalities. But the thing which is most common in the people I met here, and
no shame of accepting it myself, the acceptance of opposite gender is most satisfying.
I have seen egos succumbing, self proclaimed rules defying, and people kneeling
down just for been accepted. Well once I was lingering for that too, but now
ain't gonna listen to song of sirens. As I have concluded first one should
seek acceptance within.
Great post :-)
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DeleteO bhainsssss........ itni dadddeee Angrezi ... ?!?
ReplyDeleteyaar aur bisti,,,,waisey just writing my experiences,,,,
DeleteOK. So what r u accepting? I mean if ppl are going to judge you on every stage thn how u gona open ur self? And that is true ppl pretend to achieve other expectations. I hope u get good job appriseal too
ReplyDeleteThis depends, for some other's judgement doesn't count. For others, they wanna be accepted as introverts, and who don't give a shit for others opinion. And the job appraisal thing is obscure, please elaborate.
Deletein appraisal u are judge by superiors lolx
ReplyDeleteand i am guise as hard working, loyal employee :p
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